Monday, November 16, 2009

The FemDom Construct should be defined by a Woman

The FemDom construct should be defined by women. The common patriarchal dominant construct of femdom falsely suggest that a woman has the same physical needs and sexual needs as men. In actuality, the sexual build up for men and women are different, because our bodies are different and we are socialized differently.


A woman's sensual body is not the female version of a man's sensual body. Many Femdom blogs are written from the fantasies of horny men. Frankly, it's topping from the bottom when he defines for her what her chakra spinners aught to be, rather than understand what they actually are. For example, a woman's clitoris is not a tiny penis. Therefore, when a man engages in cunnilingus he shouldn't repeatedly wack my clitoris with his tongue. Because it does nothing for me, other than being an annoyance. Where in a man can be roughly taken to the edge by yanking and sucking his penis sensually. We are different, and our bodies work differently. A woman needs more tongue penetration. His slippery tongue should go as deeply into my vaginal canal as far as he can get it to reach. He should suck out the "cooch juice" ,rim the vaginal opening, kiss the vaginal opening, and lick the vaginal walls which actually creates kinetic energy that ignites the spinning of the chakras and awakens the kundalini. Moreover, gently sucking the labia, gently sucking and licking the clitoris, and licking the internal walls of the vaginal canal generates energy that creates and epic orgasm. He should lick it in a rhythmic upward motion, instead of a that fast circular motion that porn promotes. The easiest way to train a man to bring me to orgasm is to pour a little chardenay or orange juice in the opening of the vagina while he is licking and let him lick and suck it up with the intent to keep drops from falling on the sheets. The result is an orgasmic explosion.

Frankly, I prefer a real orgasm to faking it. The point is that the Femdom experience should be defined by the Fem not the Men.

1 comment:

Sensual D3light said...

I agree that Women should define how We dominate in our own feminine way.You don't have to be bitchy to dominate a man and our bodies are different, as well as our minds. Sometimes men think with two minds which often clouds their judgment and therefore makes us the Superior thinkers.Thanks for posting this post.