Yesterday, I was discussing smooth femdom with a friend who asked how do I know this information; questioning the bases of my opinions on Femdom. My answer was simply reading. Then I inquired about his daily reads. The unexpected response revealed that one won't find Femdom and Tantric Devotion concepts on the cover of sports pages, nor in throws of history novels. At that point, our communication became so much like the typical Man from Venus/Woman from Mars discussion on the inferences and issues of smooth femdom and tantric devotion. This prompted me to post a recommendation to read the book Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century. The author Barbara Carrellas thoroughly breaks down the ancient practice of Tantra for "the modern sexual explorers desiring to push past their edge in search of the great cosmic orgasm". This book explains the terms and concepts of tantra, the dynamic of moving chakra energy, ecstacy and heightened intimacy which are components of smooth femdom. It can be used as a guide to heightened intimacy, ecstasy, and achieve sexual and spiritual bliss. Maybe, Mars will understand what Venus is saying as it pertains to smooth femdom.
In the clip below, the author Barbara Carrellas speaks on the Sex and Sensuality Panel at the 2008 Yoga and Raw Foods Expo in New York City. The author parlays her revelation of ecstatic "sacred sex". hmmmm sounds like Smooth Femdom musing to me.
Amazon source on Urban Trantra - Barbara Carrellas is an author, sex educator, and theater artist. Her pioneering Urban Tantra® workshops were named best in New York City by TimeOut/New York magazine. She is also the cofounder of Erotic Awakening, a groundbreaking series of workshops that toured the United States and Australia. Barbara has been featured in several episodes of HBO’s Real Sex. She is also the author of Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure, numerous articles and essays, and an audio series, The Pleasure Principle. Barbara lives in New York City with her partner, trailblazing gender theory author Kate Bornstein
Today, we are observing WORLD AIDS DAY, remembering the ones we lost, those who are suffering and those who are working to end it.
The theme for World AIDS Day 2009 is 'Universal Access and Human Rights. Global leaders have pledged to work towards universal access to HIV and AIDS treatment, prevention and care, recognising these as fundamental human rights. Valuable progress has been made in increasing access to HIV and AIDS services, yet greater commitment is needed around the world if the goal of universal access is to be achieved. Millions of people continue to be infected with HIV every year. In low- and middle-income countries, less than half of those in need of antiretroviral therapy are receiving it, and too many do not have access to adequate care services.
World AIDS Day provides an opportunity for all of us - individuals, communities and political leaders - to take action and ensure that human rights are protected and global targets for HIV/AIDS prevention, treatment and care are met.
Smooth Femdom refers to a gynocentric relationship. Smooth is a metaphor for effortlessly exerting her will with ease and without roughness. While the term Femdom is a metaphore for the dominant female prerogative.
Maculine Submission refers to the Troubadour Bertran de Born's poems written to a woman he loved, who was out of his reach. Yet, Bertran de Born's masculine submission to the pleasure of her satisfaction was immeasurable. Without her pleasure, he could not obtain emotional satisfaction for himself.
This blog isnot a bdsm blog. This blog muses about Smooth Femdom. It is not the patriarchal dominant porn construct of FemDom. But true Femdom, smooth femDom. Smooth Femdom requires the masculine submission within a female led relationship.
LIBERTANGO - by Grace Jones
Grace Jones is the Ultimate Dominant Woman. Completly liberated and independant. Her song Libertango is fitting. Some may call it Strange~"I've Seen This Face Before".
Strange, Libertango by Grace Jones.
Mr. Irresistible!
He is pure "Male Animal". He is a powerful predator, who is assertive in his personal and professional life. However, what makes him absolutely irresistible is his need to be emotionally, senually, and devotedly submissiveto his Woman. An "Alpha Wolf" in "masculine submission" with in a relationship. A knight, who desires to give the"Gift of Submission" in a loving relationship. Intellectually, he is an existentialist - cerebral independent thinker open to the many possibilities. Physically, he is tall and fit with a tight stomach. Emotionally, he is open, with an incredible endurance for a highly opinionated, intense black woman with voracious appetite for getting her way...and a love of all things beautiful. Sexually, he has the capacity to endure a passionate and sensual touch with a bit of mischievousness.
Nina Simone's Version of "My Way"
My THEME SONG. At the end of my jourmey, it will be said that I did it My Way.
Glitter In The Air by Pink!
"Have you ever fed a lover with just your hands?
Close your eyes and trust it, just trust it
Have you ever thrown a fist full of glitter in the air?
Have you ever looked fear in the face & said I just don't care?" ~ Glitter In The Air, by Pink. I love Pink! Glitter in the Air embodies the Heart of an Alpha Female.
Classic Jones, Grace Jones
The Beauty of a Dominant Woman!
No Apologies, it's Human Nature!
Madonna so acutely epitomizes the Dominant Woman's unapologetic perspective on her sexuality...with a bit of mischievousness.
Followers of a silky Smooth FemDom experience
Musing about Tantric Devotion on Vinyl....
The song "The Look of Love" by Chis Botti featuring Sy Smith captures the essence of Tantric Devotion.
How so poetic......"Express Yourself, you got to make him Express Himself".
Madonna captures the psyche of the Femdom approach to relationships in her song "Express Yourself".
When I first viewed Tarrice Love's photo of Ian Morris above, I thought, "sweet". Then Eryka Badu's song Honey came to mind. "Honey, yeahhhh, you so sweet"! I couldn't resist posting this superlicous man-candy photo of Ian Morris accompanied by the Eryka Badu video of her song Honey. It's so fitting because Eryka Badu is an ecclectic independant Dominant Black Woman who has been in several high profile Female Led Relationships.
"Trouble" by Ray LaMontagne is a (tantric) devotion
Ray LaMontagne's song "Trouble" is such a melancholy lovely song. Ray LaMontagne is so scruffy and aloof, that he appears to need a good trim and a bottle of antidepressants. But damn, his songs penetrate the depth of my very soul. So sweat and so lovely, it is a beautiful devotional ode to a woman.