Why Women Should Rule the World according W. Bond

William Bond is one of the smartest people on the planet. His philosophy on Matriarchy is so on point, and I am in full agreement with is position. If women ran the world we would have a prosperous loving and clean planet, with no genocide, and filled with love and nurturing. A matriarchal government would be PRO-LOVE, PRO-PEACE,PRO-HUMANISM and respect for all things and everyone creating a loving society. We are both Matriarchist and share similar views. Hence, below is a short excerpt of his view from YouTube. William Bond, the author of "Why Women Should Rule the World", first published in 2004 by PublishAmerica under the title: Make Love Not War Published by Lulu.com as both a E-book and printed book at. -http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=786000

Chuck.............

He appears to be a chatter bug, a bit quirky, clearly complicated, mysterious, interesting body type, short statured, we nearly weigh the same, with the eyes of an owl. Those mysterious eyes express such depth of emotion. At this point, I am not clear if it is an incredible depth of sensitivity or a bi-polar disorder. Only time will tell. Nonetheless, he has captured my attention.....for now.

There is nothing sexy about runner's feet.......

It is about 5:30AM and the sun is not beaming brightly, yet. I am sitting here reading yahoo news, eating blueberries for breakfast, and preparing mentally to go running before the hot and humid heat hits. It is always interesting when runners look like a living Nike ad. Particularly, when their gear is tight, their sweat is managed, and they don’t smell. I am often baffled by how that is even possible. Seriously. I am a low key urban street runner, because I prefer not be seen during my sweaty, stinky, and torturous run that is only soothed by the tunes from my ipod. My gear “ain’t sexy”, as it always consists of one of my weathered ‘lifeisgood’ caps, any t-shirt and yoga shorts, the ipod, and a pair of sweaty saucony or addidas running sneaks. Unfortunately, my feet are the casualty. I just looked at my feet, and thought, wow these feet have taken a beating over years; there is nothing sexy about runner's feet. Jeeze, a Man would have to really be in the s-Zone to worship these feet. Just keeping real. Anyway, I’m out!

Until Next Time,
BCR

"FormyMistress" is the Monday Morning Beauty of Week

Mr. "FormyMistress" has been chosen as the Monday Morning Beauty of the Week. Yesterday, I received an aggressive email from "FormyMistress". Clearly, he needs some attention. His angry little note was hilarious. Maybe he will find what he seeks.

What do you think? Would you vote him into the Monday Morning Beauty of the Week?

Baffled by the reality of Smooth Femdom

I’m not a dominatrix. I often ignore the many emails I receive from guys seeking a dominatrix, and referring to me as Mistress. However, when they send me repeated emails, they are often baffled when I respond that I am not a dominatrix, and to bugger off. I suspect they don’t really know what Smooth Femdom really is. The following is a more complete explanation of Smooth Femdom.

Smooth Femdom refers to a gynocentric relationship. Smooth is a metaphor for effortlessly exerting her will with ease and without roughness. While the term Femdom is a metaphore for the dominant female prerogative.

Male domination refers to 1) sociological system, and 2) particular sexual activities. The sociological system is Patriarchy. Patriarchy is a system of social organization characterized by male dominance. The sexual activities refer to Male dominance which consists of BDSM activities where the dominant partner is male. Often the dominant partner uses aggressive, rough, insensitive brutality to force ones subject into submission.

The male fantasy factory and desire machines have created a demand for internet entrepreneurs to conjure up images of the manufactured female version of the male dominant. Unfortunately, it is a distortion of female domination. Female dominants are not the patriarchal dominant porn construct of the Femdom characters distributed thought out the internet. Female domination existed in cultures going back more than 5000 years, and although it's unconventional, many gynocentric households exist today. There are some similarities between Female domination and Male domination, BUT the two destinctly differ.

In the same respect Female dominance is a 1) sociological system and 2), can pertain to psycho-sexual activities. The sociological system is Matriarchy. Matriarchy is a system of social organization characterized by Female dominance or gynocentrism. However, due to the physical differences between men and women, and their different physical and emotional needs, the psycho-sexual activity refers to her Dominant Female Prerogative, rather than the superiority of physical strength. The gynocentric prerogative is broken into two groups; the Goddess, and the Dominatrix.

The Goddess and the Dominatrix have different interests and varying approaches. The Goddess is a deity, while the Dominatrix is a servicer. The Goddess is multi-demsional, into the metaphysics, willful, independent and intense. While the Dominatrix is a monolithic character who becomes her subject’s puppet to act out his fetish list of being sexually dominated. The Goddess chooses her own path in guiding a man to spiritual ecstasy. While the Dominatrix exists to fulfill a man’s fantasy fetish list his way. The Goddess is into tantric devotion and hypnotic cosmic connections. While a Dominatrix is into whatever a man tells her he wants in order to get him off in a scene. The Goddess may partake in revelry and mischief if she pleases, as a form of foreplay and mating ritual. Conversely, the Dominatrix is only there for the revelry to work his kinks. The Goddess is rooted in who she is, determined, quirky,charming and sometimes even witty. While the Dominatrix remains in character as the dark stern corporal punisher patriarchal contruct.

Smooth Femdom refers to the developing relations between a Goddess and the object of her affection. While in the sphere of the internet porn, femdom refers to the dominatrix servicing a man to his pleasure. There is a DIFFERNCE. Reality vs Fantasy.

I'm back........ and on the prowl!

It’s been more than six months since last I felt inspired to post a thought. It is summer, I’m back and seeking that masculine submissive dude who understands me.

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century

Yesterday, I was discussing smooth femdom with a friend who asked how do I know this information; questioning the bases of my opinions on Femdom. My answer was simply reading. Then I inquired about his daily reads. The unexpected response revealed that one won't find Femdom and Tantric Devotion concepts on the cover of sports pages, nor in throws of history novels. At that point, our communication became so much like the typical Man from Venus/Woman from Mars discussion on the inferences and issues of smooth femdom and tantric devotion. This prompted me to post a recommendation to read the book Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century. The author Barbara Carrellas thoroughly breaks down the ancient practice of Tantra for "the modern sexual explorers desiring to push past their edge in search of the great cosmic orgasm". This book explains the terms and concepts of tantra, the dynamic of moving chakra energy, ecstacy and heightened intimacy which are components of smooth femdom. It can be used as a guide to heightened intimacy, ecstasy, and achieve sexual and spiritual bliss. Maybe, Mars will understand what Venus is saying as it pertains to smooth femdom.

In the clip below, the author Barbara Carrellas speaks on the Sex and Sensuality Panel at the 2008 Yoga and Raw Foods Expo in New York City. The author parlays her revelation of ecstatic "sacred sex". hmmmm sounds like Smooth Femdom musing to me.



Amazon source on Urban Trantra - Barbara Carrellas is an author, sex educator, and theater artist. Her pioneering Urban Tantra® workshops were named best in New York City by TimeOut/New York magazine. She is also the cofounder of Erotic Awakening, a groundbreaking series of workshops that toured the United States and Australia. Barbara has been featured in several episodes of HBO’s Real Sex. She is also the author of Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure, numerous articles and essays, and an audio series, The Pleasure Principle. Barbara lives in New York City with her partner, trailblazing gender theory author Kate Bornstein

World Aids Day

Today, we are observing WORLD AIDS DAY, remembering the ones we lost, those who are suffering and those who are working to end it.

The theme for World AIDS Day 2009 is 'Universal Access and Human Rights. Global leaders have pledged to work towards universal access to HIV and AIDS treatment, prevention and care, recognising these as fundamental human rights. Valuable progress has been made in increasing access to HIV and AIDS services, yet greater commitment is needed around the world if the goal of universal access is to be achieved. Millions of people continue to be infected with HIV every year. In low- and middle-income countries, less than half of those in need of antiretroviral therapy are receiving it, and too many do not have access to adequate care services.

World AIDS Day provides an opportunity for all of us - individuals, communities and political leaders - to take action and ensure that human rights are protected and global targets for HIV/AIDS prevention, treatment and care are met.

Be Safe. Protect Yourself and others.

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Source: http://www.worldaidsday.org/

Monday Morning Beauty of the Week

I must confess that during my mundane monday morning meditation & oatmeal news time, I'm drawn to the naked men sites. It's a kooky little secret fetish and even worse, a complete waste of time. Moreover, I find it quite strange that after meditation, I put a cup of water, and half cut of oatmeal on the burner for five minutes or until I smell it burning. While the oatmeal burns I click on the laptop and read the news. Yet, increasingly, I can't resist viewing The Daily Naked Drool before I read the Guardian, The Globalist or the New York Times. I've justified this little secret fetish of mine as being simply an appreciation of the beauty of the Davidian form. However, this "Naked Man thing" has gone to new heights. I subscribe to a number of naked man sites which feature the most beautiful naked men. I've discovered that of the hundreds of public blogspot subscribers, I am the only female blogspot subscriber amongst hundreds of gay male subscribers. My god, at my age the site of a lovely naked man shouldn't be such a "cooch popper". To boot, it's kind of an embarrassing childish little secret.

The hypocrisy of it all is I've passed judgement on men who post those "that's so hot" comments. Yet, this morning, after I posted a ridiculous comment to one the naked men sites, something like; "absolutely beautiful bravo bravo applause applause"; I immediately realized there just might be a problem over here, damnit. It is official, maybe I need to find a NMA program; naked man anonymous 12 step..lol. Clearly, if I'm viewing these sites before the day starts when I'm pressed for time and burning my oatmeal, it could be a little problem in denial, hello.

However, until I pass the denial stage, or discover that there is actually such a thing as a NMA program, I'll keep feeding the fetish, so check out the monday morning beauty of the week. He definitely deserves a standing ovation. Bravo, bravo, applause applause!

Gotta go, have an uberlicious day.
Until Next Time.... BCR!

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Picture Source: Nov 27th The Daily Naked Drool